Thanks for your reply. We revceived word today that medically this childs condition is far less serious than we thought. I have been wearing out my rosary beads asking for Our Ladys guidance on this one. Asking her to send me a sign that we are indeed for this child. Today her answer was crystal clear. He IS for us. He needs siblings both girls and boys youger and older and we are moving forward.My husband is Chinese and speaks his dialect and is a doctor whose specialty is in his medical area of need.
Thanks to all for the advice and prayers.