I have three children, ages 11, 9, and 6. I had to work full time their whole lives until 3 1/2 years ago. Then, during that time I had to go back to work for about 3 months. That time I lost will never be given back. I’m so grateful to be at home with them now and wouldn’t trade it for anything in the world. But those early months I especially regret missing all the changes.
My opinion is stay with those babies! Don’t let a daycare provider enjoy all those little milestones.
However, I’ll also say that you and your husband are the only ones who can decide what’s best for your family. It might be that it would be a good thing for you. All I can offer is my own experience and opinion!
God bless and good luck!