I just thought I might add a suggestion…
Have you read the book called, “Good News about Sex & Marriage”?
Christopher West mentions the submission topic in his book & although I’ve already heard and re-heard the explanation of submission, I still found West’s explanation to be a beautiful reminder of the awesome perspective the Church really has on wives and husbands.
At any rate, I can assure you that the book is well worth the read. It’s an outstanding book.