I think you are referring to right before the gospel reading when everyone traces a cross on their forehead, lips and heart? That is to ask God to open your mind & heart to His words and help you to speak His words of love to others.
That’s the only thing I can think of! I think that your passion for Christ and the Church is beautiful. I pray that I can find even a little of that for myself and impart it to my children. I know it’s dorky but it makes me want to cry! I envy those of you who are so visibly ‘on fire’ for God. It is just so beautiful that words can’t really even describe it!