I just wanted to respond to what you said regarding the surgery and the recent miscarriages. I feel that you are making the right decision not to go through with the surgery. I myself have had 3 miscarriages and I am now very parnoid about doing anything that might harm a new baby. God bless you in what you are going through. The doctor will understand if you explain it to him (well, maybe not all of it) and who cares what other people think. You are answering to God. thanks Rischa