I’m glad you were able to talk things out and iron out some difference.
I refuse to have any of that testing and here is why: I don’t care what the tests says, I will not abort a child. I lost 10 babies in the past 10 years and I will not purposely cause the loss of another one. Period.
Also, I am the kind of person who, if the test were to come back positive about something, I would spend the rest of the pregnancy fretting and worrying instead of enjoying the life in my womb. Some women prefer to know beforehand so they can prepare themselves. I’m just not one of them.
Many prayers that you and DH will be able to ge ton the same page about family!