Talk to your priest about what you can do if your dh is not ameniable to seeking an annulment. There are things that can be done, I think “radical sanation” is what it’s called? (one of the smarter women here can correct me 8) ). Because unless the two of you have your marriage validated within the Catholic church, you cannot participate in the Eucharist.
After 5 years, most of which I spent nagging dh b/c he is not Catholic and couldn’t figure out the big deal, he finally received an annulment from his first marriage. We are having our marriage validated February 17th. I am a cradle Catholic but never made my confirmation, so I have been in RCIA this year and will be confirmed this upcoming Easter Vigil.
Good luck! I will be praying for you!