I want to thank you both for your wisdom. I think what I need to do is to make sure my husband knows my position on things and why I feel the way I do. Sometimes though, with 5 children of my own, there is not a lot of together, alone discussion time. Perhaps this is where we go wrong. I understand what both of you are trying to say and I am proud to be a Catholic woman, wife and mother too. Both of you are very inspiring. Thank you again for the thoughts.
BTW I am 40 and my husband is 41. I guess that makes us the oldies of the group